Control

How can someone control my life so much?? Its like I didn't break up with one person, but an entire group of friends. Aaargh.... this is so irritating. when will people grow up? why are people so one-sided and yet claim to be objective? She has a minor accident... has some muscle spasm or something... was bed-ridden for a few days.... doc says this might go on for months or almost a year... is on medication...everytime we meet, she has a back ache, of course no one tells me, coz apparently she didn't want me to know... this is so weird.. can such things be kept a secret! come on people.... for god's sake, grow UP! will i never find out? or people think i am dumb that I will never put two and two together when everytime we meet, if she is there, then she has a back ache, or she is not there because of that. when i ask... people say, regular pain. And yesterday, I found out that its all because of an accident.

May be she asked people not to tell me coz I will, otherwise, email her / call her and she doesnt' want all that. I understand that but does she really think that I will never find out??